Be who you are. No matter what people say, if it is morally right, doesn’t harm anyone and it makes you happy then do it. No matter what you do, some people will always judge you. So don’t care about them, ignore them because that’ll be the wisest thing for you as a gentleman or a lady to do.
See you can’t please everybody. Even if you try, then also you’ll find some people who’ll be unhappy with your choices, your decisions, your lifestyle, and will judge you as a person. And my dear, ask yourself, did you come here on this planet to please everybody? To be like someone else? To live someone else’s life? Or to live as you wish to? To do what makes you happy? To be you as you are, unique in your own way? To thank, enjoy and cherish the way God has created you?
Be yourself. Everyone else is already taken.
There are different people with their own experiences in life and the opinions they hold are mostly influenced by their experiences and that strongly affects their decisions in life. They can be judgemental or non-judgemental towards you. If they judge you, then their judgements will be based on what they have seen, done and experienced in their own unique way, and that has nothing to do with you because you are different, the people you have met and those around you are different, the way you’ve lived your life is different and hence your experiences are different.
It’s good to listen to people and their experiences and then learn from them and be careful for the mistakes they have done so that you won’t repeat the same in life. But it’s equally important to make ‘your’ mistakes, to learn from your own mistakes in life, to learn from your experiences. That will make you grow, be a better person in life, help you improve yourself and help you with self-care.
You can only take good care of others, when you take care of yourself first..! ~ Riddhi Sharma
Be yourself. Don’t be afraid to live your own life, in your own unique way. Be afraid to live someone else’s life, be afraid to lose your identity. Once you do that, right opportunities will start coming your way, right people will automatically stay, and you’ll see yourself grow and be a better version of yourself..!
Love to all..! ❤