Be yourself..!

Be who you are. No matter what people say, if it is morally right, doesn’t harm anyone and it makes you happy then do it. No matter what you do, some people will always judge you. So don’t care about them, ignore them because that’ll be the wisest thing for you as a gentleman or a lady to do.

See you can’t please everybody. Even if you try, then also you’ll find some people who’ll be unhappy with your choices, your decisions, your lifestyle, and will judge you as a person. And my dear, ask yourself, did you come here on this planet to please everybody? To be like someone else? To live someone else’s life? Or to live as you wish to? To do what makes you happy? To be you as you are, unique in your own way? To thank, enjoy and cherish the way God has created you?

Be yourself. Everyone else is already taken.

There are different people with their own experiences in life and the opinions they hold are mostly influenced by their experiences and that strongly affects their decisions in life. They can be judgemental or non-judgemental towards you. If they judge you, then their judgements will be based on what they have seen, done and experienced in their own unique way, and that has nothing to do with you because you are different, the people you have met and those around you are different, the way you’ve lived your life is different and hence your experiences are different. 

It’s good to listen to people and their experiences and then learn from them and be careful for the mistakes they have done so that you won’t repeat the same in life. But it’s equally important to make ‘your’ mistakes, to learn from your own mistakes in life, to learn from your experiences. That will make you grow, be a better person in life, help you improve yourself and help you with self-care. 

You can only take good care of others, when you take care of yourself first..!                            ~ Riddhi Sharma

Be yourself. Don’t be afraid to live your own life, in your own unique way. Be afraid to live someone else’s life, be afraid to lose your identity. Once you do that, right opportunities will start coming your way, right people will automatically stay, and you’ll see yourself grow and be a better version of yourself..!

Love to all..! ❤


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  2. Bonsoir

    SAVOIR PRENDRE
    Prendre le temps d’aimer
    C’est l’éternelle jeunesse
    C’est du rire
    C’est la musique quand on se sens en pleine forme
    C’est pleurer quand on a l’émotion
    C’est du cœur à partager avec les siens ou avec ses amis
    C’est de lire pour s’instruire et avoir su savoir
    C’est écouter
    C’est l’intelligence
    De penser est la clé de la réussite
    De jouer nous rappelle notre enfance
    De rêver c’est un souffle de bonheur
    Il faut prendre le temps de vivre car les jours passent vite
    Passe une belle soirée
    Gros bisous Bernard

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  5. Problem with the people is that they are afraid of the change (read my blog topic Fear, it describes the same) . People freak out when some major changes are coming their way, even if they are for their own good. One should be consistently bound with his/her goal,no matter how big or small it is. Then the magic happens. You keep meeting the people who are having similar interests and if you ever meet someone who is unconditional and never judging, make him/her your best friend.

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  6. novelistbaba

    in this wave of conformity………..the real struggle is truly to find your individuality and staying true to who you are……..listening to others is good…..but never let them shape you…….after all they are not the ones living your life……its you!
    great post!!!
    Also I have nominated you for Mystery blogger award……..should you choose to accept, go here:
    https://letthereberhyme.wordpress.com/2016/11/18/mystery-blogger-award-acceptance-in-poetry-style/

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  7. Reblogged this on lasting impressions editing and commented:
    Friends, I’d like to introduce to you Riddhi Sharma whose wonderfully engaging posts caught my attention this week and I just had to follow her. She inspires and makes us think, to reflect honestly on our own lives and how we each have our own purpose in this world. Please take a look on Riddhi’s site if you would. She has a strong and appreciative following.

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