There comes a time when you do a lot for someone, you give your time, love, energy, positivity to someone to uplift them in life, to take him out of that shell of negativity and loneliness that one might be feeling, to take him out of his chaotic world, and
make him enter your world, show him the positive side of life, give him the happiness that he desires, fill him up with love that he feels have been emptied by some reasons, and get him on the right track.
Do you expect the same person to forget everything and say one day that i could have done all that better all by myself?
Yes ofcourse, he could have done that way better all by himself, but a person must always appreciate the support that someone had given you when you needed that the most, you must appreciate the person who was all ears to you when you wanted to be heard, you must appreciate the person who took all your negative energies on herself just to make you feel more alive and happier, you must appreciate the person who was with you through thick and thin when nobody had time for your negative rants.
And my dear, this doesn’t count in love, this is humanity. It means a lot when someone is sharing your pain with you.
Let’s not expect anyone to be with you and to treat you and make you feel the same way as you did once when they needed you. Let’s not expect anyone to be there for you when you need them, just because you were there for them when they needed you. Let’s not expect anyone to fill you up with positivity and love when you are going negative because one can also blame you that you are a “negative person” and won’t understand the pain you are suffering from.
” If you expect the world to be fair with you, just because you were fair with them, then you are fooling yourself. That’s like expecting a lion not to eat you, just because you didn’t eat him. “
So let’s learn to stand up for ourselves, let’s learn to stand alone and stay strong, let’s learn to fight alone, let’s learn to be there for ourselves whenever we need us, let’s learn to stand up again when defeated and face the challenge, let’s learn to pick ourselves up without any help, let’s learn to take us out of the negative mess alone, let’s learn to show ourselves the positive world all by ourselves, let’s learn to spend more time with ourselves, LET’S LEARN TO LIVE LIFE..!