Expectations vs Reality

There comes a time when you do a lot for someone, you give your time, love, energy, positivity to someone to uplift them in life, to take him out of that shell of negativity and loneliness that one might be feeling, to take him out of his chaotic world, and 

make him enter your world, show him the positive side of life, give him the happiness that he desires, fill him up with love that he feels have been emptied by some reasons, and get him on the right track.

Do you expect the same person to forget everything and say one day that i could have done all that better all by myself?

Yes ofcourse, he could have done that way better all by himself, but a person must always appreciate the support that someone had given you when you needed that the most, you must appreciate the person who was all ears to you when you wanted to be heard, you must appreciate the person who took all your negative energies on herself just to make you feel more alive and happier, you must appreciate the person who was with you through thick and thin when nobody had time for your negative rants. 

And my dear, this doesn’t count in love, this is humanity. It means a lot when someone is sharing your pain with you. 

Let’s not expect anyone to be with you and to treat you and make you feel the same way as you did once when they needed you. Let’s not expect anyone to be there for you when you need them, just because you were there for them when they needed you. Let’s not expect anyone to fill you up with positivity and love when you are going negative because one can also blame you that you are a “negative person” and won’t understand the pain you are suffering from.

” If you expect the world to be fair with you, just because you were fair with them, then you are fooling yourself. That’s like expecting a lion not to eat you, just because you didn’t eat him. “

So let’s learn to stand up for ourselves, let’s learn to stand alone and stay strong, let’s learn to fight alone, let’s learn to be there for ourselves whenever we need us, let’s learn to stand up again when defeated and face the challenge, let’s learn to pick ourselves up without any help, let’s learn to take us out of the negative mess alone, let’s learn to show ourselves the positive world all by ourselves, let’s learn to spend more time with ourselves, LET’S LEARN TO LIVE LIFE..! 

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31 thoughts on “Expectations vs Reality

  1. Yep 👍.. it’s a harsh reality when you don’t receive your expectations from someone who is deserving..

    But… even it might goes unappreciated in your eyes.. that person will always remember you for your kindness and your compassion..
    but please don’t expect eternal obligations just because.
    Gratitude comes in all forms..
    just feel pleased 😁 with you for doing something great 👍 for someone.. you lift them out of the depth they sink….

    And believe that he is forever grateful to you for saving him from drowning in sorrow

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  2. It might not always happen that people show gratitude to all the nice things u did for them and for all the support u gave for them .. But it will speak volumes about ur wonderful nature in turn .. It is actually helping urself to be a better person.. But yeah it would hurt when people would say they could have done it better themselves but that’s how the world is . unfair sometimes. Lovely riddhuuuu again.

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  3. I liked this post and it applies to how I felt I should mean more to someone because of all my listenung, giving and our having a romantic life, but nothing can be counted on forever, except possibly family and true friends. Seeking is not always able to fulfilled but hope continues in our hearts. The part at the end of your post today seemed like a quote but missed who wrote it. Thanks for sharing! 🙂

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  4. Bonjour

    J’ai vu ton passage sur mon blog
    Je me permets de rentrer dans ton univers
    Pour te dire merci
    Merci de ta fidélité
    Merci de tes commentaires
    Merci du fond du coeur
    Merci pour tout
    je te souhaite une très bonne journée

    Une excellente semaine à venir avec une petite chute de température

    Reste bien au chaud

    Prends bien soin de toi

    Gros bisous Bernard

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